Helping someone in trouble, caring about people you hardly know, is almost a form of prayer, when you stop to think about it. It is an offering to God and the benefits flow right back to you - From 'The Power of the Plus Factor' by Dr.Norman Vincent Peale
Friday, July 24, 2009
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Monday, July 20, 2009
Random Thoughts-28: "Unique Talent"
I sincerely believe that every one of us has some unique talent. Only most of us are not aware of it. So the first step is becoming aware of this and then identifying one's unique talent. Then comes nurturing it and manifesting it - Manifesting it for one's own welfare; for the welfare of one's near and dear; and also for the welfare of the society at large.
It needs nurturing because it remains just a spark. When you nurture it, it starts growing and glowing. In the light, you see your life's unique mission. Then life becomes focused and meaningful. You cut down all distractions and march towards your life's unique mission with single-minded devotion. When you attain your goal, your life becomes fulfilled. Even if you don't reach your goal, the very process of striving for it with all your mite should be satisfying and make you happy.
The greatest tragedy of life is not having this awareness. The spark flares up now and then to draw your attention to it. But if you still ignore it, it is really a pity.
Nurturing it and finally manifesting and utilizing it for your own selfish ends would be a crime.
How to identify your unique talent? Turn inward and dive deeper and deeper and deeper; you will find it. Why waste your precious time in the pursuit of limiting materialistic goals?
There is this reassuring advice from great sages: "Know that by knowing which everything becomes known; attain that by attaining which everything is attained."
Blessed are those who have found their unique talent early in life; nurtured it properly and manifested it fully for the welfare of one and all.
It needs nurturing because it remains just a spark. When you nurture it, it starts growing and glowing. In the light, you see your life's unique mission. Then life becomes focused and meaningful. You cut down all distractions and march towards your life's unique mission with single-minded devotion. When you attain your goal, your life becomes fulfilled. Even if you don't reach your goal, the very process of striving for it with all your mite should be satisfying and make you happy.
The greatest tragedy of life is not having this awareness. The spark flares up now and then to draw your attention to it. But if you still ignore it, it is really a pity.
Nurturing it and finally manifesting and utilizing it for your own selfish ends would be a crime.
How to identify your unique talent? Turn inward and dive deeper and deeper and deeper; you will find it. Why waste your precious time in the pursuit of limiting materialistic goals?
There is this reassuring advice from great sages: "Know that by knowing which everything becomes known; attain that by attaining which everything is attained."
Blessed are those who have found their unique talent early in life; nurtured it properly and manifested it fully for the welfare of one and all.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Picture of the day-4:
Karaikudi Railway station now has several beautiful buildings and provides many comforts to the passengers. This photo is from the garden inside the station campus.
Friday, July 17, 2009
Picture of the day-3:
Flowers fascinate everybody, not just ladies. I took this during a visitto Poovalur (near Lalgudi, Trichy Dt).
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Picture of the day-2:
Yet another picture taken on the Sriram Nagar-University Road, Karaikudi. The outstretched branches make the trees look elegant and I thought it deserved a click. Hence you have it here.
Random Thoughts-27: "Number Thirteen"
Thirteen is considered to be an unlucky number by many. In US, many hotels do not have a 13th floor; after 12th floor, you get to the 14th floor! Likewise, there is no Room No.13. People do not want to commence or take up anything of importance on the 13th day of the month. Whatever you take up may fail or there may be worse misfortunes. People seem to be damn afraid of that number. This superstition seems to be universal breaking borders.I have a special connection to number thirteen. My official date of birth is 13. My real one is something different. Those days schools won't admit children below six . When I was 5, I was admitted in school; probably somebody added a year to my age, which is all right with me; but they changed the date and month. At random they might have chosen the numbers. I had my share of troubles and misfortunes in my sixty-year old life, whether due to it or otherwise.
This fear associated with number thirteen makes me think. For me, Swami Vivekananda is the embodiment of fearlessness, courage and manliness. He says that if there is one word that keeps recurring in the Upanishads, it is fearlessness. The Bhagavad Gita also puts fearlessness in the first place when it starts listing out divine wealth or divine values. So it is a virtue or value one must cultivate. Analysing our fears one by one threadbare may help. Facing your fears head on may be a way. If you are spiritual like me, japa (repetition of the holy name), meditation and prayer also should help to some extent.If there are other ways, I shall be glad to learn.
On looking up 'Thirteen' in Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, I found a lot of interesting facts:
* There were thirteen disciples of Jesus in the Last Supper and Judas Iscariot was the thirteenth.
* In the Sikh holy scripture, Guru Granth Sahib, the word 'Waheguru' appears 13 times.
* 13 is the age at which a boy becomes Bar Mitzwah in Judaism.
* 13 is the sixth prime number.
* The morbid fear of 13 is called Triskaidekaphobia.
* Thirteen is the age when one becomes a teenager.
* The unsuccessful mission to moon by the US is Apollo 13.(An oxygen tank exploded in Apollo 13 on April 13(!), 1970 leading to failure of the mission).
The surprising news is that there are people to whom 13 is a luck number. If you look up Wikipedia, you will find more details about them. For example, in Italy, 13 is considered to be a lucky number. So also at the Colgate University. But then considering a number lucky or unlucky, is not the same, I mean, superstition?
The world is full of superstitions, some of them very interesting though. One day I should sit up and collect the details; maybe I would write an article for my blog about superstitions.
Grateful thanks to Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Eyecatchers-139: "Teenager fell into a manhole"
Harper's Weekly reports of a teenager in New York City, who fell down a manhole, while writing text message in his mobile.
Those of you who use your mobile while walking or riding, watch out! ensure that you don't meet with the same fate or worse. Avoid using the mobile while walking or riding.
Those of you who use your mobile while walking or riding, watch out! ensure that you don't meet with the same fate or worse. Avoid using the mobile while walking or riding.
Picture of the day-1:
This is a new feature. After visiting many blogs, I realized the importance of pictures and took steps to buy a camera. At last I did it. It cost me nearly a month's pension. Still I bought it. It is a Canon Powershot A590 digital camera. Then I started clicking, clicking and clicking. Now I have a lot of pictures in my Picture Folder.
The camera made me realize how blind I have been to nature. For example, when I board a train or bus, I open my book and start reading or at least try to read. and forget the outside world. But, now the story is different. I take out my camera and look for object to click. Oh, there is no dearth for objects! When I upload them to my PC and view them, I am impressed. I admit I am only an amateur photographer and don't know much photography. I have started learning slowly the art of photography.
When I opened my picture folder today, I got an idea: why not have a special feature for photographs in my blog? Hence this column. I have uploaded the first photo and hope to continue. It was taken two days back, when the sun was about to set. The location was Sriram Nagar-University Road. The road was almost deserted!
Needless to say, I would very much appreciate comments/hints to improve my knowledge of photography.
The camera made me realize how blind I have been to nature. For example, when I board a train or bus, I open my book and start reading or at least try to read. and forget the outside world. But, now the story is different. I take out my camera and look for object to click. Oh, there is no dearth for objects! When I upload them to my PC and view them, I am impressed. I admit I am only an amateur photographer and don't know much photography. I have started learning slowly the art of photography.
When I opened my picture folder today, I got an idea: why not have a special feature for photographs in my blog? Hence this column. I have uploaded the first photo and hope to continue. It was taken two days back, when the sun was about to set. The location was Sriram Nagar-University Road. The road was almost deserted!
Needless to say, I would very much appreciate comments/hints to improve my knowledge of photography.
Saturday, July 04, 2009
Random Thoughts-26: "Swami Vivekananda Memorial Day"
Photo of Swami Vivekananda at Vivekananda Kendra, Kunyakumari,taken by Suri using his Canon Powershot A-590 camera
It is on this day, July 4, Swami Vivekananda attained Mahasamadhi. It also coincides with the American Independence Day.
I call myself a devotee, admirer, follower, worshipper of Swami Vivekananda. He is just 'swamiji' for his devotees. He has been a great source of inspiration for me. His writings have moulded me; but still I have to go a long way to call myself as a true devotee of swamiji.
On this day, I choose one of his great sayings and would like to dwell on it, discuss it and share with you my personal thoughts on that.
"Strength is Life, Weakness is Death.
Expansion is Life, Contraction is Death.
Love is Life, Hatred is Death."
The first line exhorts us to develop strength of mind, body and character. With strength you overcome weaknesses, don't yield to temptations, surmount obstacles however big they seem to be and face evil with courage and confidence.
The third line reminds us that without love, life is meaningless, worthless, pointless and a total waste. When we hate somebody, whether it affects the other person or not, it definitely affects us; not only that, it could destroy us; it takes us away from our goal of life.
The second line is the most beautiful to me. We all begin our life, so to say, as a dot. That dot grows into a small circle encompassing our beloved mother and father; then the circle gradually expands to include all our near and dear; people of our place, our country and our world; not only that, even plants, birds and animals; finally breaking all barriers, we become one with the universe. (We find this all-embracing love in great souls like the Buddha, Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa and others.) It is the goal of life, the purpose of life, fulfilment or whatever you want to call it. So if we stop or stagnate at any particular point, it is a pity, for we lose the purpose of our life; we have fallen short of the goal; if you are a believer in reincarnation like me, then we may have to take more births and continue from where we left off till we finally reach the goal.
It is 'maya' or ignorance which deludes us and distracts us from our real purpose of life. We think name and fame are the goal of life; or still worse, money and other material possessions are the goal of life; they are not. We easily forget this. Days like this are to remind us of our true goal and to goad us to seek and strive for that goal- no matter how many times we forget it or lose the battle; it may be a thousand times; still we keep on trying and never stop till we realize the goal of life.
Jai, Sri Swamiji Maharaj ki Jai!
Jai, Sri Mahamayee ki Jai!
Jai, Sri Guru Maharaj ki Jai!
I call myself a devotee, admirer, follower, worshipper of Swami Vivekananda. He is just 'swamiji' for his devotees. He has been a great source of inspiration for me. His writings have moulded me; but still I have to go a long way to call myself as a true devotee of swamiji.
On this day, I choose one of his great sayings and would like to dwell on it, discuss it and share with you my personal thoughts on that.
"Strength is Life, Weakness is Death.
Expansion is Life, Contraction is Death.
Love is Life, Hatred is Death."
The first line exhorts us to develop strength of mind, body and character. With strength you overcome weaknesses, don't yield to temptations, surmount obstacles however big they seem to be and face evil with courage and confidence.
The third line reminds us that without love, life is meaningless, worthless, pointless and a total waste. When we hate somebody, whether it affects the other person or not, it definitely affects us; not only that, it could destroy us; it takes us away from our goal of life.
The second line is the most beautiful to me. We all begin our life, so to say, as a dot. That dot grows into a small circle encompassing our beloved mother and father; then the circle gradually expands to include all our near and dear; people of our place, our country and our world; not only that, even plants, birds and animals; finally breaking all barriers, we become one with the universe. (We find this all-embracing love in great souls like the Buddha, Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa and others.) It is the goal of life, the purpose of life, fulfilment or whatever you want to call it. So if we stop or stagnate at any particular point, it is a pity, for we lose the purpose of our life; we have fallen short of the goal; if you are a believer in reincarnation like me, then we may have to take more births and continue from where we left off till we finally reach the goal.
It is 'maya' or ignorance which deludes us and distracts us from our real purpose of life. We think name and fame are the goal of life; or still worse, money and other material possessions are the goal of life; they are not. We easily forget this. Days like this are to remind us of our true goal and to goad us to seek and strive for that goal- no matter how many times we forget it or lose the battle; it may be a thousand times; still we keep on trying and never stop till we realize the goal of life.
Jai, Sri Swamiji Maharaj ki Jai!
Jai, Sri Mahamayee ki Jai!
Jai, Sri Guru Maharaj ki Jai!
Monday, June 22, 2009
Letters-76: "Money Power, Politics and Governance"
1. The article "The Age of the Aam Crorepati" (The Hindu, June 20) is a stinging piece of writing on the susceptibility of politics to money power. the term aam crorepati is seemingly an oxymoron. But it serves to highlight the fact that the newly constituted Lok Sabha is under the sway of millionaire politicians. With 836 million people still "getting by" on less Rs.20 a day and the average worth of a Lok Sabha MP being worth Rs.51 million, the gap between the poor and their rich representatives is glaring. A house of the rich for a nation of the poor is apparently a paradox. But it can be resolved by understanding the correlation between wealth and power. - G.David Milton, Maruthancode.
2. The excellent and informative article makes distressing reading. It highlights the true state of affairs - which is at variance with the picture portrayed - in our elected bodies. Facts speak louder than the din of high-decibel concerns voiced ritualistically in favour of the aam aadmi from time to time. - Satinath Sen, Bangalore.
3. The article has exposed the link between money power and governance. Our political parties have steadily discarded their policies and manifestos, resorting instead to freebies and populist schemes to lure the poor. - T.R.Krishnamurthy, Chennai.
4. The 15th Lok Sabha established the disturbing phenomenon that only people with huge wealth can occupy positions of power, even in a supposedly working democracy like India. Garibi hatao, power to the aam aadmi, and uplift of the weaker sections are all empty slogans. The polity, it seems, has been compromised irreversibly. - J.V.V.Murthy, Coimbatore.
Courtesy: 'Letters to the Editor', The Hindu, Madurai, June 22, 2009.
Grateful thanks to M/s.G.David Milton, Satinath Sen, T.R.Krishnamurthy, J.V.V.Murthy and The Hindu.
2. The excellent and informative article makes distressing reading. It highlights the true state of affairs - which is at variance with the picture portrayed - in our elected bodies. Facts speak louder than the din of high-decibel concerns voiced ritualistically in favour of the aam aadmi from time to time. - Satinath Sen, Bangalore.
3. The article has exposed the link between money power and governance. Our political parties have steadily discarded their policies and manifestos, resorting instead to freebies and populist schemes to lure the poor. - T.R.Krishnamurthy, Chennai.
4. The 15th Lok Sabha established the disturbing phenomenon that only people with huge wealth can occupy positions of power, even in a supposedly working democracy like India. Garibi hatao, power to the aam aadmi, and uplift of the weaker sections are all empty slogans. The polity, it seems, has been compromised irreversibly. - J.V.V.Murthy, Coimbatore.
Courtesy: 'Letters to the Editor', The Hindu, Madurai, June 22, 2009.
Grateful thanks to M/s.G.David Milton, Satinath Sen, T.R.Krishnamurthy, J.V.V.Murthy and The Hindu.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
My Photo Album-37: "Achu washing clothes"
Achu is a great do-it-yourselfer. When we try to feed him, he refuses; he prefers to eat the food without anybody's assistance; while walking also, if you try to hold his hand, he shakes it off. He wants to be independent. Here he is seen washing his own clothes. See how totally he is absorbed in the work. Photos taken by Suri using his Canon Powershot A590 camera.
Friday, June 19, 2009
TED Talks: "The Future Beckons You at TED India"
I am a member of the TED Community and great admirer of TED Talks. I have received a mail about upcoming TED conference to be held in Mysore, India during November 4-7, 2009. Under the theme “The Future Beckons,” TEDIndia will be presenting for three days inspiring speakers from the worlds of technology, entertainment, design, science, business and the arts. Join TED India and those who have the opportunity to participate/witness the conference, are most welcome to do so. I am reproducing the mail received by me from TED Team in full:
date Fri, Jun 12, 2009 at 9:30 PM
subject: Join us at TEDIndia!
Dear Members of the TED Community,
We are thrilled to tell you about TEDIndia, the upcoming TED conference to be held in Mysore, India November 4-7, 2009.
About TEDIndia:
Under the theme “The Future Beckons,” TEDIndia will present three days of inspiring speakers from the worlds of technology, entertainment, design, science, business and the arts.
"At a time of huge economic uncertainty, one thing remains clear: There's been an unmistakable shift of influence to the east," says TED's Curator Chris Anderson. "We wanted to examine the future from the vantage point of India, a country that's re-inventing itself daily and whose influence is reshaping the world."
Inspired speakers and game-changing ideas, evocative locations and transporting entertainment: TEDIndia offers a vision of the future that's rich with invention, entrepreneurship, cross-disciplinary problem-solving, unexpected solutions and sensory delight. Hosted in a country that's reinventing itself - and reshaping the world …
TEDIndia will be held at the incredible high-tech campus built by Infosys to train its thousands of engineering graduates, representing the heart of the Asian outsourcing industry. And while we have not yet announced the speaker program, it's already shaping up to be an extraordinary line-up. Speakers will include India’s most promising innovators, from entrepreneurs to artists, storytellers to scientists. And about one third of the program will come from outside India. We’ll hear from celebrated global icons as well as undiscovered talent that’s due broader recognition.
To learn more about the conference, visit http://conferences.ted.com/TEDIndia/.
How to Attend:
1. Apply for a TEDIndia Membership: The registration fee for TEDIndia is US$2,000, plus $400 for all housing, meals and airport shuttle. Apply online here: http://www.ted.com/registration/tedindia.
2. Apply for a Reduced Price Membership: We will be offering a limited number of spots to individuals in the education and nonprofit worlds at a reduced price of US$1,000, plus $400 for all housing, meals and airport shuttle. Apply online here: http://www.ted.com/registration/tedindia
3. Apply to be a TEDIndia Fellow: We will be welcoming 100 Fellows to TEDIndia free of charge. Applications for the TED Fellows program close in just one week! To learn more about the program, visit www.ted.com/fellows. Apply online here: www.ted.com/fellows/apply.
We hope that you will consider joining us at TEDIndia!
All the best,
The TED Team
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Grateful thanks to TED Team
Thursday, June 11, 2009
A Thought for Today-203:
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others - Mahatma Gandhi
Monday, June 01, 2009
My Photo Album-36: "Some Recent Photos of Achu"
Achu has now moved to Kovilpatti, where his father is working. During my recent visit to his house, I took the above photos with my Canon Powershot A590 camera. My wife says my skill as photographer has much to improve, as Achu looks better in person than in the photos. She is right, especially the angles are not that good. I have sought the help of my friend, Annamalai, who is a great artist and expert photographer. He is yet to take a kind-heart to me in this regard. Probably I will have go after him.
Achu already has a fan club among our friends and relatives. These photos are for them.
Achu already has a fan club among our friends and relatives. These photos are for them.
Monday, May 25, 2009
My Photo Album-35:
Latest photo of Suri. Taken on the morning of May 19, 2009 at Thiruvalluvar Nagar Beach, Chennai. You are seeing the Bay of Bengal in the background. Snapped by Aravind using Suri's Canon Powershot A590 camera. Officially Suri has crossed 60 last November. Of late, Suri finds it difficult to concentrate anything or think of writing or blogging. Practically he has posted very little in the last 10-15 days. Suri does not know how long this dry period will last. He seems to have lost the inclination to do anything, except some brief reading daily. At present, he is reading 'The City of God' by Dominique Lapierre which Vinod bought for Suri at Landmark, Citi Center during Suri's recent visit. He has covered about a hundred pages in the past seven days. Today he has paid BSNL Rs.766/- towards the broadband connection he got with the idea of regular blogging and surfing. But very little use has been made of this by him and natually he feels guilty. Further, he finds it very disappointing. Let us hope and pray that this dry period soon passes and he starts blogging and surfing soon as in the past.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Websites to Watch-56: "SCITABLE"
Scitable is a collaborative learning space for science. It is also a free science library and personal learning tool brought out by Nature Publishing Group, the world's leading publisher of science.
Scitable currently concentrates on genetics, the study of evolution, variation, and the rich complexity of living organisms.
One can cultivate one's understanding of modern genetics on Scitable and can also explore the impacts of genetics on society.
At present it has more than 150 free, evidence-based articles that explain the science of genetics to undergraduate-level students.
One can also connect with a global community of faculty, researchers and students that share interest in genetics.
Students can ask an Expert a question.and access over 200 overviews of key concepts.
To visit the site:
http://www.nature.com/scitable
Grateful thanks to Nature and Professor Subbiah Arunachalam (for drawing my attention to the site).
Scitable currently concentrates on genetics, the study of evolution, variation, and the rich complexity of living organisms.
One can cultivate one's understanding of modern genetics on Scitable and can also explore the impacts of genetics on society.
At present it has more than 150 free, evidence-based articles that explain the science of genetics to undergraduate-level students.
One can also connect with a global community of faculty, researchers and students that share interest in genetics.
Students can ask an Expert a question.and access over 200 overviews of key concepts.
To visit the site:
http://www.nature.com/scitable
Grateful thanks to Nature and Professor Subbiah Arunachalam (for drawing my attention to the site).
Thursday, May 07, 2009
Random Thoughts-27: "Smoking in Public Places"
Notwithstanding the law, I see many people smoking in public; they seem to be flaunting it in defiance and seem to be spoiling for a fight with anyone who even looks at them with annoyance. There is also a feeling that the state government is not very serious about implementing the law, their sympathies being with the smokers. Another reason could be that it was introduced by Dr.Anbumani Ramadoss. Whatever may be, we are all , including women and children, are still a victim of passive smoking.
These public-smokers stand near you and exhale tobacco fumes arrogantly, making it clear to you that they care two hoots of the law and for your health. I used to get mad when subjected to such arrogance. But, of late, I feel only sorry for them. What is the reason for this change of attitude?
I remembered one of these days that I also used to be a smoker during my college days; but I used to do it secretively, being afraid of it coming to the notice of my dad. But I was not a chain-smoker.
One day I had been to Madurai to appear for pre-university examinations to clear my arrears. I was staying in a lodge. In the evening, for a change of scene, I went to the Madurai Railway Station and incidentally met a few of dad's friends. At that time, my dad was in Gummidipundi performing census of passengers for the railways. What I did not know was that there was only one more day left and my dad managed to obtain permission from his boss and came straight to Madurai. His friends who had seen me told him where I was staying. He came straight to see me.
I was enjoying a smoke inside the room, after an hour or so of concentrated study, when I heard somebody knocking at the door. I immediately put out the cigarette and opened the door. I was shocked to see my dad. He came inside and could easily inhale the tobacco odour. Further, he could also see a new pack of cigarettes with a matchbox on the table. Before he could ask anything I told him that they were probably left by the previous occupant of that room. He did not probe into it but only asked me to take care of myself, study well and write the exams confidently. Then he left. I heaved a sigh of relief.
After the exams, when I returned home after a week, the first thing he said was: "Promise me that you won't touch tobacco in your life again." You can guess my discomfiture. I had no other alternative and touched his outstretched palm with mine. And that was that. It never occurred to me all these years to break that promise. But for that probably I would also be smoking now; though I doubt I would have had the courage and audacity to smoke in public, being a timid guy.
My dad is no more now; he passed two years back at the age of 80. Unfortunately, during his lifetime, it never occurred to me to say: "Dad, I am very grateful to you; you saved me from a great evil." It would have made him very happy. It gets added to the things you regret of not having done.
So now when I see somebody smoking, I only feel sorry for him and think: "Man! you probably did not have a dad like mine."
These public-smokers stand near you and exhale tobacco fumes arrogantly, making it clear to you that they care two hoots of the law and for your health. I used to get mad when subjected to such arrogance. But, of late, I feel only sorry for them. What is the reason for this change of attitude?
I remembered one of these days that I also used to be a smoker during my college days; but I used to do it secretively, being afraid of it coming to the notice of my dad. But I was not a chain-smoker.
One day I had been to Madurai to appear for pre-university examinations to clear my arrears. I was staying in a lodge. In the evening, for a change of scene, I went to the Madurai Railway Station and incidentally met a few of dad's friends. At that time, my dad was in Gummidipundi performing census of passengers for the railways. What I did not know was that there was only one more day left and my dad managed to obtain permission from his boss and came straight to Madurai. His friends who had seen me told him where I was staying. He came straight to see me.
I was enjoying a smoke inside the room, after an hour or so of concentrated study, when I heard somebody knocking at the door. I immediately put out the cigarette and opened the door. I was shocked to see my dad. He came inside and could easily inhale the tobacco odour. Further, he could also see a new pack of cigarettes with a matchbox on the table. Before he could ask anything I told him that they were probably left by the previous occupant of that room. He did not probe into it but only asked me to take care of myself, study well and write the exams confidently. Then he left. I heaved a sigh of relief.
After the exams, when I returned home after a week, the first thing he said was: "Promise me that you won't touch tobacco in your life again." You can guess my discomfiture. I had no other alternative and touched his outstretched palm with mine. And that was that. It never occurred to me all these years to break that promise. But for that probably I would also be smoking now; though I doubt I would have had the courage and audacity to smoke in public, being a timid guy.
My dad is no more now; he passed two years back at the age of 80. Unfortunately, during his lifetime, it never occurred to me to say: "Dad, I am very grateful to you; you saved me from a great evil." It would have made him very happy. It gets added to the things you regret of not having done.
So now when I see somebody smoking, I only feel sorry for him and think: "Man! you probably did not have a dad like mine."
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